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Mission in the Airport

Monday, August 24th, 2009

As we flew from Orlando to Atlanta to board our plane for Peru, I was thinking about our mission and what we would be doing there.  While walking to our gate, my focus changed as I noticed a young soldier next to us.  Alan began talking with him and found out that he was headed back to Afghanistan after a two week leave.  He mentioned that it would be easier to stay in Afghanistan than to come home and leave again. We thanked him for serving our country and continued to our gate.

My thoughts were still on that soldier and the sacrifice he and his family were making.  I remembered how difficult it had been when Chris left for the Navy.  Each time he came home, I wondered where he would be sent and when I would see him again. I was sure the soldier’s family was wondering the same thing.

I was surprised when we reached our gate to see the large waiting area occupied with a huge number of soldiers and marines in camouflage with American flags decorating their sleeves.  Most were young men but a few women and middle aged men also sat waiting for their flights.

I studied them as we all waited.  Sipping a McDonalds drink.  Staring at an overhead TV.  Working on a laptop.  Talking quietly with a fellow soldier.  Eyes ahead listening to music from a headset.  Reading intently.  Head back and eyes closed.   Speaking on cell phones.  What was going through their minds as they waited?  Were they thinking of home?  Were they thinking of what lay ahead?

Alan and I each talked with a few as we all waited. They were headed to Kuwait where they would be deployed to other areas such as Iraq and Afghanistan. Some had already been to Iraq and at least one was going back for the fourth time. One middle aged man had three sons in the military who were also serving in that area. I thought of the wife and mother at home and what she must be going through. Each person had a story and loved ones at home. How many would come home?  What condition would they be in?  How would their lives be permanently affected?

At that time, Peru seemed far away.  I felt my mission then was to speak to them, thank them, and pray for them.  It is easy to hear about the wars on the news and forget that normal people have their lives disrupted.  Seeing them reminded me that we should actively support our troops and their families.  There are many things that we can do. Pray.  Send cards.  Support organizations that help the military.  The families would love a phone call, offer to babysit, a meal, an outing, or a hug.  We may or may not support the wars, but we should support our troops.

Homeless Connect

Sunday, March 22nd, 2009

             Almost three hundred clients attended the Homeless Connect event at my church with about as many volunteers.  Government agencies and many local ministries were there to assist the homeless in meeting their physical, emotional, and spiritual needs.  I felt privileged to be able to serve and minister for the day. 

            The event brought the homeless into my life as I helped my first client maneuver through the system for over three hours which was both rewarding and very frustrating.  He needed a new Social Security card, but the official birth certificate that he had was not enough proof of who he was.  Without the Social Security card, he could not obtain a Florida ID.  Without the Florida ID, he could not get the Social Security card.  Nor could he apply for food stamps or other services.  To get a job, he needed an ID.  To rent an apartment, it was mandatory to have a current ID.  It was a vicious cycle as we collided with one barrier after another at place after place and back again. I tried to intervene on his behalf with each obstacle, but rules are rules.  Even though each person we encountered was kind and sympathetic, they could not change the guidelines either.  My client accepted the situation with quiet dignity.  One lady was able to give him hope with information about an Identity event the following week which offers help to people with his complications.  Hopefully, he will attend and finally get his required ID. 

            During the day, I was constantly comparing his life to mine.  I could easily obtain a new driver’s license or Social Security card by driving to the office, handing over some money, and walking out with my ID.  He had neither the transportation nor the money.  I remember when I had to get new cards after I got married and was annoyed at the time and effort that it took.  For him, the effort would have been nothing compared to the relief of having a real ID.  I was humbled as I thought about it.

            As we enjoyed our lunches, I ate at my normally rather slow speed when I noticed that he had gobbled up twice as much food and was finished.  When I sat with my husband for dinner that night, I wondered where and what my new friend was eating.  He certainly was not at Olive Garden like we were savoring the delicious food. 

            Later that evening I snuggled beneath a soft blanket on clean sheets and speculated on where he was sleeping.  I knew that he had gotten a blanket, sheets, and a pillow but were they on a bed in a safe environment?  Did he have a roof over his head?  He told me he was living in south Orlando but did not share where that was.  He had spent a couple of nights at the Coalition for the Homeless and the Orlando Rescue Mission but was no longer there.  He had only been in Orlando for three weeks coming from a northern state. He had no job and had gotten some type of benefits in his previous state.  Beyond that, he did not share much of his personal life, and I did not want to pry.

            It is easy to see a bedraggled soul by the side of the road with a cardboard sign begging for help and think that he should just get a job.  However, when you spend the day with someone, homelessness becomes very real and personal.  When you watch him go through a stuffed backpack of clothes, books, and toiletries, your heart is touched.  The backpack was old and dusty, but the contents were neatly placed inside with many items in plastic bags.  What would it be like to have all of my material belongings compressed into one bag? 

            His face continues to appear before me, and I pray that the event made a difference in his life.  I will never know what, if any, impact was made, but I do know that I was changed.  I will continue to pray for him and the others who allowed us to get to know them.  I will continue to find ways to help those who are hurting.  In these difficult times that we are facing in our country and around the world, there are people everywhere who are homeless, facing homelessness, or having financial difficulties.  If each American looks around, we will find many that we can assist in shelters or even in our own neighborhoods. It may be by offering money, food, clothing, or advice, but encouragement, a listening ear, and prayer are also invaluable. 

Matthew 25:40  And the King will answer and say to them, “Whatever you did to the least of these, you did to me.”

The Gray Sweater

Wednesday, September 10th, 2008

 

            From the outside, there was little indication that a church was on the other side of the door, but when the door opened, we stepped into a small sanctuary.  It was very simple with wooden benches arranged for us—a waiting area, an eyeglass testing section, a medical zone, and a spot for haircutting.  The pastor, his wife, and a few volunteers welcomed us warmly as we set up for the day.   

            On a line of chairs next to our medical area, I laid out the clothes that we had brought to distribute in case we saw someone in need.  We began our blood pressure and blood sugar checks as a steady stream of people came to see us.  I noticed a lady who seemed cold as she sat on a bench near me so I found a long sleeved turtleneck shirt.  Her face lit up as I handed it to her, and she immediately pulled it on over her shirt. Noticing her thin pants, I scanned the clothing selection and found a pair of pants that I thought would fit her.  Again, she smiled with delight. 

            Later, an older lady waited patiently for her turn while wearing a thin shirt.  Our supply of women’s clothing was dwindling and her size was larger than the clothes that we had, but I spied the sweater that Alan had donated.  He had used the sweater when he was in cold AC at work before he retired and had bought the sweater at the resale shop where my parents work for their church.  When I handed her the gray sweater, she beamed and quickly put it on.  She did not care about the long history of the sweater and did not question whether it belonged to a man or a woman.  It was warm, and it fit which was all that really mattered.  She continued to smile as she waited her turn and gave me a big hug before she left. 

            What we had given seemed like a small thing to us but to her was a treasure.  Often we think that we can’t make a difference in the world because our contributions are small compared to the rich and famous.  To that lady, her new sweater made the difference between being cold and being comfortable which was not a tiny thing to her.  Small kindnesses and a genuine interest in others can mean the world to them as we minister wherever we are.    

My Hurting Feet

Thursday, September 4th, 2008

 

            Pain increased as I tried to push my swollen feet into too tight shoes.  Additional pain radiated from my fingers to my elbows as I struggled to get dressed.  Why were my hands and feet so swollen?  Why was I in so much pain?  I had not planned to just sit during our mission trip to Peru, but it seemed as if that might happen.  I was very frustrated with the situation.   

            Martha, the nurse on our team, thought that I should see a doctor to rule out any serious condition.  I did want some relief but was not keen on seeing an unknown doctor in a foreign country.  Dennys and Gloria checked on doctors and found a newly opened clinic in the area.  Calls were made, a taxi secured, and the three of us were off. 

            We entered the clean, bright waiting room and were welcomed by a young receptionist.  My faithful interpreter, Gloria, accompanied me as I signed in, was weighed, and measured.  I had to convert the kilograms and centimeters to pounds and inches in my head when asked if my weight was normal.  Thank goodness I had taught the metric system to my students.

            After returning to the waiting room, I watched the other patients and glanced at the Spanish language tv show.  Within a few minutes, Gloria and I were escorted into another room where a doctor met us.  He smiled, shook our hands, and spoke in Spanish so I understood nothing.  He inquired about my medical history, symptoms, and medications before examining my elephant like extremities.  After a long conversation with Gloria, she would tell me very briefly what he was saying.  He then listened to my heart and lungs and pronounced that they were strong.  He said that I had been doing too much to my body and needed to rest with my feet elevated.  He also said to take an anti-inflammatory and prescribed a cream to be applied.  As we prepared to leave, he looked at me and said, “I wish that I could talk to you more in English.”  I was surprised and learned that he had studied in English in medical school but was not proficient in speaking it.  He shook my hand and thanked me for coming to his country to help.

            With relief, I left the clinic and thought that I would soon be back to normal but that did not happen.  The next morning I was still in the same condition.  Tears came as I talked to Gloria about not feeling good and wanting to be able to help the team.  She then told me that I had made an impression on the doctor because he could not believe that our team had come from America to assist the poor of his country.  She wisely reminded me that our ways are not always God’s ways and that He can use us when we least expect it.  Who knows what impact was made on that doctor because I needed medical attention.  My pain did not subside because of that revelation, but it did remind me that good can come from adversity.

Hope in the Peruvian Hills

Sunday, August 31st, 2008

 

            When we entered the community center, volunteers from Gloria’s church were there to assist us.  They supplied interpreters, registrars, and people who kept everyone moving in an orderly manner.  A crowd of visitors jammed the main room of the building as they waited for haircuts, glasses, and medical care.  Our medical care consisted of blood pressure and blood sugar checks, vitamins, cold remedies, pain relievers, and worm pills, which most people took.  It was certainly not a full fledged clinic. 

            Our first visitor was an elderly lady who looked so tired and frail.  Our resources were so limited and no matter what we were able to do, she would still return to a cold, small hut type home on the muddy, rocky hillside.  I wished that we could do more medically than to give her vitamins and pain medicine for her aching body.  However, when she rose to leave, she smiled broadly and gave us each a hug so that I knew that we had brightened her day and given her hope.

            Four or five mothers came with young children who were sick with coughing, sore throats,  fever, and other symptoms.  Looking at their sad, lethargic faces made me think of my happy, healthy, well-fed granddaughters.  When they get sick, their parents can quickly go to the store for medication or to the doctor if necessary.  Even then, there are times of anxiety until the girls are well.  As I watched the worried mothers, I thought of how much they also loved their children but did not have the resources to help them.  What heavy hearts they must have had when they could not do anything for their children.  For those mothers, we were probably their only help-limited though it was-which made me feel so inadequate.  I was also humbled to think of all the medical remedies that are at our disposal at home while they have little or nothing.

            Alan’s cousin, Annie, had sent beanie babies from her foundation  www.carebags4kids.org  to give the children so when the sick children came, I pulled out the animals.  Smiles appeared, tears subsided, and eyes brightened as they held tightly to their new friends.  I prayed that the Tylenol, cough medicine, animals, hugs, and hope would enable them to recover.  I will never know the impact that we all made that day on those impoverished hill people, but I do know that people were changed—those who came for assistance and those who were there to serve.

The Scarf

Friday, August 29th, 2008

            My crocheting skills, which had been shelved for many years, were recently revived as we prepared to go to Peru.  When Gloria mentioned that she needed yarn to make warm coverings for the poor who lived there, I decided that I could help.  I received donations of yarn from my mom, her friend, and my cousin, Ruth.  At night while watching tv, I slowly began to be more proficient with my crocheting.  My first lavender hat turned into one for a doll, the second one became one for a baby, and the third one actually was an adult size.  Then I assembled a scarf to match the hat which looked presentable after I worked to even out the sides. 

            Since I had small amounts of various colors of yarn, I decided that the next project would be gold and green stripes.  I was careful to count the stitches and was impressed that I was finally getting the hang of it.  However, I guess the tv shows distracted me because some of the stitches did not look quite right and the rows were not all even.  Having contrasting colors only made the flaws more noticeable.  I continued working but told Alan that I was not going to take it to Peru because it looked like a big mistake.  He reminded me that those who are cold would be satisfied to have something to keep them warm.  After several conversations, I decided to finish the scarf and take it with us to Peru—in spite of my misgivings.

            The day that we went to see the grannies I took the scarf and laid it on the table with the other items of clothing, including the prettier lavender hat and scarf.  I wondered if any of the ladies would even look at the gold and green scarf when so many lovely clothes were spread out before them. 

            Gladys, a lady who had been deformed by a huge facial tumor, picked up a white, poncho with intricate stitches that I had created several years ago.  Then, much to my surprise, she also selected the gold and green scarf. 

            When we returned to the home the following day, Gladys was wearing the scarf that I had almost left at home.  Alan took me to her and explained that I had made the scarf.  With a huge smile, she gave me a hug and kiss as I bent down to reach her.  I was so humbled because she was thankful for something that I thought was worth little.

            Even though she had had an operation to remove the large tumor, there was disfigurement and  one eye was gone so she wore glasses to cover part of it.  Her outward appearance could cause many people to avoid her but the sweet, kind spirit brought people to her.  She quietly went about helping others and made sure that the other residents received their haircuts and manicures.  Unfortunately, time ran out and she did not get her special pampering, but that did not seem to faze her at all.

            I had looked at the imperfections in my scarf and almost rejected it, but Alan’s encouragement caused me to take it to Peru anyway.  Even though it had flaws, it was warm and offered comfort to an elderly lady.  How fitting it was that an outwardly deformed lady received my misshapened scarf.  Many people would probably reject her because of her strange appearance, but her beautiful, loving ways showed that God was working through her.  That defective scarf and dear lady reminded me that I should look beyond outward appearances and see the inward beauty, strength, and purpose.  

 


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Haircut in Peru

Wednesday, August 27th, 2008

                                                           

            After traveling across the city of Peru, we arrived at the home of six elderly ladies.  The house had been donated to Gloria’s church by a family who had purchased another home.  The church had initially used it for needy children and when they outgrew it, older ladies became the residents.  They were capable of taking care of themselves but needed a safe, secure place to live.

            The tidy, concrete home consisted of several floors and was very clean but in need of some repairs.  Three ladies greeted us enthusiastically with hugs and kisses when we entered walled courtyard.  We were led into the living room and prepared to set up for our various activities.  Mary plugged in her clippers, brought out the scissors, and began styling the hair of a delightful, gray haired granny.  When the style was complete, Mary then proceeded to give her a manicure with colorful polish.  When Stephanie posed for us to show off her new look, you would have thought she was Miss Peru.  Her joy and antics made us all laugh and smile.

            Before we got there, Mary had been concerned that no one would want a stranger cutting their hair.  However, her fears were quickly dissolved when she observed the happiness that she had brought to the less fortunate.  When we use the skills God has given us, He can produce magnificent results.  Whether it is at home or in a foreign country, we need to be open to sharing what we have been given.

Peru Mission 08

Wednesday, August 27th, 2008

           Our diverse team was comprised of members with a wide variety of experiences from three churches in two states.  The eight team members included two career missionaries, a hair stylist, a Disney bus driver, and four retirees-a policeman, an insurance manager, a nurse, and a teacher.  We had not met as a complete group and only came together as we assembled in Peru.

            Our gracious host family, the sister’s family of our leader, lovingly shared their home with us after entertaining another team the previous week.  Each small bedroom was wall to wall beds to accommodate four people.  They had given up their rooms to enable us to have room.  One bath served our team while the family normally used a small bath in the adjoining tailor’s shop.  It was amazing how well it worked to have so many people in a small space.

            Out of the tiny kitchen delicious Peruvian food was prepared for us every day by the lady of the house.  Her infectious smile and servant’s heart ministered to us as she selflessly made sure that we were taken care of.  Her husband was a local policeman who worked twenty-four hour shifts so we did not see him each day.  He let us know through an interpreter that his house was small and simple but that he wanted us to feel that it was our home.  Their two sons, aged ten and five, added spark and smiles to the house.  The fourth grader was eager to practice his English and also helped translate.  His Saturday English classes were definitely assisting him in learning the language.  The five year old was a bundle of energy and loved to show us his skills.   Each family member was eager to help us and enjoyed sharing what they had.

            The family’s welcoming attitude and nurturing care enabled us to reach out to those less fortunate in the area.  Even though their lives were totally disrupted by eight adults filling their home, they remained cheerful, helpful, and extremely hospitable.  Before we went to minister, they had first ministered to us.  What an important lesson that is–especially when we feel that we are not able to do much.  We just need to be willing and let God do the rest. 

Homeless Connection

Saturday, August 2nd, 2008

               Volunteering for the day was rewarding to me as I saw the interaction between homeless residents of our area and local volunteers.  There were smiles, conversations, and genuine caring from both groups.  Without the red t-shirts, it would have been difficult in many cases to distinguish the helpers from those needing assistance.  I worked with lively teenagers, enthusiastic young parents, friendly middle aged adults, and wise senior citizens.  Everyone was serving those in need with gladness and a servant’s heart. 

            There were so many stories which demonstrated God’s love.  A lady with a walker was taken care of as she waited in line.  She was told to stay in one spot and when it was her turn, she moved to the front.  A flow of drinking water was supplied to everyone while we were in the hot sun.  A caring, elderly man told me that I should get out of the blazing sun and tried to give me his seat several times.  Another client gave up his seat to a female volunteer.  One lady refused the services at the spa because she said there were other women who needed them more than she did.  As I worked, I was in contact with hundreds of people who were all showing graciousness and love to each other.

            When each person left for the day, they were given a backpack of food and hygiene supplies to take with them.  Their problems were not all eliminated by spending the day at Northland and having access to all sorts of services, but everyone had received some type of aid.  Throughout the day, I observed the contagion of love and hope spreading from person to person.  I do not know how anyone, homeless and volunteers, could have left without knowing that someone cared about them.  When you are blessing others, it is very difficult to avoid being blessed in return.   

Scars of Cuba

Tuesday, May 22nd, 2007

     Touring Old Havana gave our mission team an opportunity to observe the beautiful, intricate carvings on buildings from the 1800’s.  Glimpses of grandeur, when Havana was a jewel of the Caribbean, are positioned beside crumbling facades and falling stones.  Laundry hung over ornate iron balconies in front of open, screenless, windows.  Disposable diapers swung forlornly in the hot, dry air trying to refresh themselves for a young child.  A barbershop was set up beside the dark, dreary staircase at the door of an old, decayed structure.  While walking the narrow, crumbling street, we stepped quickly to avoid being drenched by a bucket of cleaning water that was thrown over the balcony into the street.  Trash littered the sidewalks with the smell of sewage prevalent in some areas.  A few of the buildings had been renovated and showed their true beauty, but most displayed the scars of time which had caused ruin and disintegration.  We strolled the streets noting everyday life in a country that had gone from opulence to one of much decay and poverty.  Streets were filled with Cubans of all ages mingling with tourists from Canada, Britain, Germany, and Holland, but Americans were a rarity in the communist nation. 

     Tiny establishments lined the narrow streets as people attempted to earn some extra money.  Park squares of the city were filled with Cubans trying to earn extra money from tourists.  Elderly men hawked Spanish newspapers while old ladies smoking cigars posed for pictures.  Girls in brightly colored dresses held baskets of artificial flowers while requesting that pictures be taken.  Near the harbor, vendors displayed paintings, sculptures, jewelry, clothing, and crafts.  In the hot, muggy weather shoppers searched to find just the right items to take home.  Musicians strummed banjos and sang in restaurants, hotels, and street corners hoping for some tips.  Each group, as if on cue, would produce a CD hoping to obtain even more money.  Some related how they had previously worked as famous entertainers in various venues in Havana. 

     In a country where the standard of living has regressed and where freedom has been eliminated, people still display an upbeat spirit.  Lively music was heard down each street while people conversed, and children played stickball. 

      Cars on the streets made us feel as if we had been transported back to the 1940’s and 1950’s. The majority of cars were American cars from that time period with newer ones reserved for government officials and rentals for tourists.  They shared the street with bicycles, bicycle taxis, horse drawn carriages, and buses.  Camel buses were constructed from semitrailers and held up to 350 people who were crammed into the non airconditioned vehicles.  This was the mode of transportation for the majority of residents. 

      Havana is indeed a city of contrasts.  The buildings demonstrated what used to be and what is now.  People outwardly appeared to accept the condition of their lives and did not seem discouraged like I thought they might.  We saw many smiles and experienced much kindness with a  pace of life slower than at home.  Because of the way that the government had manipulated our mission plans, we received a small indication of what life was like for Cuban citizens.  All week we felt a sense of thankfulness to be Americans and a sadness for our neighbors in Cuba.